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Tech Titans: How to Ask for Help as a Leader with Arnie Katz, CPTO at GoFundMe

Jul 30, 2026 · 28m

Summary

Arnie Katz, CPTO at GoFundMe, discusses the psychology of asking for help and how AI tools optimize fundraising titles to increase donations. He shares a personal failure from his early online grocery startup, emphasizing the importance of data over assumptions. Katz also outlines leadership strategies for fostering psychological safety, advocating for oscillating between high-level strategy and granular details to encourage calculated risk-taking and learning from failure.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Supporters vs. Champions on GoFundMe The psychology of asking for help and community connection Tips for asking for help: People want to help you Using AI to optimize fundraiser titles and stories Arnie's failed startup: Lessons from an online grocery company Overcoming the fear of failure and bias to action Creating psychological safety and infrastructure for teams Finding motivation through GoFundMe's impact and growth Leadership lesson: Oscillating between strategy and details Conclusion and call to action
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