223. Emmy Blotnick: Don’t Take That Deal
Sep 14, 2026 · 46m
Summary
Mike Birbiglia interviews comedian Emmy Blotnick, who discusses her new special, "What Is Her Secret," and shares personal stories about family struggles, beauty industry spending, and navigating life as a woman. They explore the ethics of using family members in comedy, the pressure of social media, and the importance of owning one's creative work. Blotnick also shares new bits and offers advice on collaboration in writers' rooms, while Birbiglia reflects on his own experiences with self-deprecation and maintaining friendships.
Topics discussed
Introduction and Emmy Blotnick's new special
Discussion on beauty standards and Sephora spending
Comedy bit on the beauty industry and high-definition cameras
Male role models and pressure on men's appearance
Family dynamics and jokes about her brother in prison
Navigating institutional approval and YouTube vs. HBO
Originality of jokes and checking with other comedians
Random compliments and the phrase 'bros before hose'
Handling insults and using them in comedy
Tips for working in writers' rooms and collaboration
Sponsor reads for Rula, Quince, and Square
Robin's 'Dancing on My Own' and paying for friends' tabs
Maintaining long-distance friendships and phone calls
Advice on rejecting a bad deal for her special
Sponsor reads for Ethos, Warby Parker, and Square
Goofy flower bouquet gift for her husband
Observations on governor's mansion and LA billboards
Pet peeves about Christian rock and Harry Potter sequels
Subway bit and supporting 826 NYC nonprofit
Closing remarks and credits
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