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"My Wife Knew I Was Bisexual—But I Still Hid in Plain Sight" - Seth Duffy

Sep 9, 2026 · 1h 29m

Summary

Seth Duffy shares his journey as a bisexual man who concealed his identity for years while married to a woman in West Virginia. He recounts being publicly outed via a Facebook post after his divorce, which led to mixed reactions from his family and the loss of several friendships. Duffy discusses the ongoing struggle of compartmentalizing his life, maintaining a straight professional persona to avoid workplace discrimination, and the difficulty of bridging the gap between his straight and gay social circles.

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