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The New Ways To Be Rude & “How Much Do You Earn?”

Oct 15, 2026 · 42m

Summary

Holly Wainwright and Emily Vernon discuss the cultural shift from "quiet quitting" to performative "loud working" in insecure job markets. They debate the etiquette of disclosing salaries on early dates, with Emily suggesting it should happen by the third date to align financial goals. The hosts also explore modern social rudeness, such as using AI for heartfelt messages and leaving WhatsApp groups without warning, alongside navigating tricky social cues like bringing gifts to friends' houses. Finally, they share recommendations including a lecture on creative inspiration, a nightly gratitu…

Topics discussed

Halloween costume ideas for twins Welcome and Emily Vernon's return Quiet quitting vs. loud working Discussing income in dating Financial goals and gender dynamics Joint accounts and parking fines New ways of being rude Social cues and small talk norms Emily Maguire's lecture on creativity Three questions to ask before bed Building houses in Cambodia Furniture giveaway and acknowledgments
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