How do you deal with loneliness?
Sep 24, 2026 · 17m
Summary
In this episode of Lunchtime Live, host Andrea Gilligan speaks with 25-year-old Clane, who recently went viral for a TikTok video admitting to her loneliness. Clane shares how stepping back from competitive show jumping and the lingering effects of the pandemic left her without a close support network, prompting her to bravely share her feelings online. The conversation explores the stigma and embarrassment surrounding adult loneliness, with listeners sharing their own stories of isolation. The segment concludes with practical advice on overcoming social anxiety, including joining local mee…
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Introduction: The difficulty of admitting loneliness
Clare's story: Posting a vulnerable TikTok video
Viral response: 120k views and supportive comments
Roots of isolation: Solo sports, college, and anxiety
The specific pain of having no one to share news with
Overcoming embarrassment and societal perceptions of loneliness
Community action: Local meetups and starting a coffee club
Listener texts: Loneliness in the 40s and single parenting
Changing social habits: Coffee culture vs. drinking culture
The challenge of making friends as an adult
Closing thoughts and call to action for listeners
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