"Wir verlieren unsere Töchter" - Jana Frey über Bücher, ADHS und social media
Aug 29, 2026 · 16m
Summary
Jana Frey discusses her new book "Wir verlieren unsere Töchter," arguing that girls face severe mental health crises due to social media, performance pressure, and beauty standards. She highlights how smartphones and toxic online trends, like dark romance, replace deep reading and foster harmful social contagion of self-harm. Frey criticizes the over-diagnosis of mental illness and the lack of parental engagement, urging adults to set strict digital boundaries and model healthy, book-centric habits.
Topics discussed
Introduction: Boys vs. Girls as school problems
Jana Frey's observation of changing youth behavior
The anecdote of a 9th grader who stopped reading
Decline in reading and the rise of Dark Romance
Impact of smartphones and social media on concentration
Historical perspective: Post-war girls vs. today's mental health
The paradox of self-optimization and parental absence
Social media trends: Mental health as social currency
Dangers of psychiatric clinics and social contagion
Advice for parents: Treating teens as healthy individuals
Personal experience: Strict rules on smartphone usage
Promoting reading through family rituals and fun
Conclusion and book details
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