Bücher und Bildung - "Der Stärkere hört zu": Herr Reff über Respekt in der Schule
Aug 29, 2026 · 13m
Summary
Ethik teacher Herr Reff discusses his book "Der Stärkere hört zu" and his work at a Berlin Brennpunktschule, challenging stereotypes about low-income students. He shares his personal journey from a problematic student to a teacher, emphasizing that respect involves listening and acknowledging students' hidden strengths. The episode highlights practical classroom strategies, such as using gaming metaphors to validate students' experiences and setting clear boundaries around consent and physical contact.
Topics discussed
Introduction of guest and his book on respect
Defining 'Brennpunktschule' and financial vs social status
Reframing student experiences using gaming metaphors
Building self-worth and inner strength in students
Personal background: Domestic violence and compensation
Applying personal experience to empathetic teaching
Academic journey from Hauptschule to university
Impact of negative labels and imposter syndrome
Reflections on past school recommendations and behavior
The 'Herr Reff' persona and the concept of strength
Physical presence, authority, and student fears
Teaching life skills like tying shoelaces
Core school rules: Accepting 'No' and boundaries
Integrating social rules into the ethics curriculum
Balancing teacher and social worker roles
Book details and closing remarks
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