Survivre à l'inceste en tant qu’homme
Topics discussed
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Intro: Men's inability to identify violence they suffer
Guests introduction and episode context
The turning point: When they decided to speak out
Breaking denial: Recognizing past aggression as violence
Using art and theater to explore father-son dynamics
Film analysis: Divergent reactions of siblings to father
Masculinity and shame: Re-reading one's own victimization
The 'silence of men' and identifying hidden violence
Recognizing childhood sexualization in peers
Acting the trauma: Working with the actor on dissociation
The concept of 'La Frappe' vs. the caress
Impact on intimacy and relationships as adults
Statistics on male victims and the issue of naming
The gap in male awareness compared to women
Hypersexuality myths and the confusion of consent
Analyzing the key scene: The child in the father's bed
The inconditionality of incest and the feeling of love
Class, race, and the representation of male suffering
Black men, racism, and the hypersexualization stereotype
Reproducing violence and self-hatred after trauma
Art as a survival mechanism and health issues
Fear of self-examination and societal stagnation
Healing: The father's apology and moving forward
The ELDA program: Peer support for victims
Conclusion: Art, writing, and credits
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