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Forum From The Archives: M. Gessen Reckons with Familial Crime and Punishment

Sep 4, 2026 · 55m

Summary

M. Gessen discusses their new podcast, *The Idiot*, which investigates their cousin Alan’s attempt to hire an undercover FBI agent to kill his ex-wife. Gessen explores the family’s fractured dynamics, their own journey from judgment to empathy, and the complex legal and emotional aftermath of the crime. The episode also features listener stories about relatives who committed terrible acts, highlighting the broader impact of incarceration on families.

Topics discussed

Introduction to Forum and M. Gessen's podcast The Idiot Family dynamics and the shock of Alan's crime The FBI sting operation and Alan's arrest The trial, guilt, and Gessen's shifting perspective Listener questions on family members committing crimes Restorative justice and the courtroom experience Interviewing Alan in prison and shared immigrant experiences Listener Michael shares story of uncle who killed a cop Harriet Clark's story of growing up with an incarcerated mother Listener Erica discusses bipolar father and prison release fears Reintegration challenges and the role of family post-prison Listener Lisa's brother and the complexity of sexual assault cases Priscilla's resilience and protection from Alan Gender dynamics, accountability, and concluding thoughts
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