This Hurts Good - Part 1
Sep 22, 2026 · 28m
Summary
Joyce Meyer explores the transformative power of selfless love, arguing that "dying to self" is a painful but necessary process for spiritual freedom. She uses her own hip surgery and a story about God revealing her selfishness to illustrate how embracing discomfort leads to healing. Meyer emphasizes that believers must actively pour out love by serving others, warning that spiritual stagnation occurs when we only receive without giving.
Topics discussed
Introduction: Dying to selfishness brings freedom
The command to love one another as Jesus did
Embracing pain rather than fighting it
Characteristics of love from 1 Corinthians 13
Applying love to marriage and relationships
The pain of dying to self is healing
Personal story: Hip surgery as a spiritual lesson
Dealing with the root problem instead of symptoms
God showing you your own role in problems
Rejoicing when God convicts you of sin
Why selfishness makes us unhappy
Pouring out to receive more from God
Practical ways to meet others' needs
God works through people, not just miracles
Joyce's commitment to serving others privately
How serving others energizes and heals you
The impact of giving on family dynamics
Reciprocity in relationships: Washing feet
We were made for purpose and adventure
Book promotion and conference announcement
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