Why you shouldn't bring your full self to work
Sep 7, 2026 · 45m
Summary
In this Code Switch episode, hosts Ba Parker and Jean Tempy discuss the concept of workplace authenticity with author Jodi Ann Bury, whose book "Authentic" argues that the pressure to bring your "full self" to work is a trap, particularly for Black women. Bury shares her personal experiences navigating a spinal cord injury and suicidal depression, illustrating how institutions often fail to support marginalized employees despite claims of inclusivity. The conversation explores how code-switching and the myth of meritocracy leave Black women vulnerable to burnout and health issues, emphasizi…
Topics discussed
Intro: The cost of bringing your full self to work
Hosts introduce the topic and guest
Personal reflections on work-life boundaries
Introducing Jodi Ann Bury and her book 'Authentic'
Why authenticity is a trap for Black women
Episode content warning and logistics
Jodi Ann's origin story and early career
Separating self-worth from professional identity
Navigating work as a disabled person
The role of visibility in setting boundaries
Managing mental health and team boundaries
Deconstructing the concept of authenticity
Code-switching and the 'Insecure' example
Class dynamics and research limitations
Who is targeted by authenticity demands?
Black women's pain and the 'be a bitch' advice
Weathering and health impacts of discrimination
Consequences of challenging workplace culture
The danger of mission-driven organizations
Why education and merit do not protect Black women
Grief over the failure of meritocracy
Pragmatic advice for preserving identity
Personal stories of labor and family history
Critiquing capitalism and disposability
Finding peace and self-worth in work
Closing remarks and credits
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