Ignore That Feeling with Fern Brady and Alison Spittle Ignore That Feeling with Fern Brady and Alison Spittle

EMDR therapy, people pleasing and crying on podcasts

Aug 4, 2026 · 40m

Summary

Comedians Fern Brady and Alison Spittle critique the "trauma industrial complex" in podcasting while sharing their personal experiences with EMDR therapy for past violence. They discuss the nuances of ADHD and autism diagnoses, contrasting their coping mechanisms during a trip to Spain’s Primavera festival. The episode also touches on body image, diet culture, and the challenges of navigating neurodivergence in public life.

Topics discussed

ZocDoc sponsorship and dental emergency story Intro and discussion on engineered vulnerability in podcasts Trauma dumping, comedy, and the pressure to share personal stories Fern's EMDR therapy journey and processing past trauma EMDR safe place visualization and choosing protectors Allison's EMDR experience and ZocDoc ad break Writing about trauma, crying, and emotional regulation ADHD, autism, chronic illness, and social media narratives Fern's ADHD diagnosis, medication, and getting help in the UK Airbnb story in Spain and navigating neurodivergent communication Imposter syndrome regarding autism and ADHD diagnoses
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