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121: Is it time to stop height-shaming men?

Jul 14, 2026 ยท 1h 2m

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Cold open: Harry Kane and penalty kicks Intro: 73 Questions minus 70 and current mood Bug bears: Insidious racism and car-centric cities Achievements: Living in the moment and shaking ass Mystery question: Is it time to stop height-shaming men? Height norms: Bantam battalions and dating app bias Masculinity: Protector ideology and gay men's fashion Aesthetics: The pressure on men to care about appearance Stated vs revealed preferences in dating and resentment Gendered ego, vulnerability, and traditional roles Lesbian preferences and the appeal of tailored care Listener advice: Handling a crush on a colleague
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