Hidden Brain Hidden Brain

A Secret Source of Connection

Jun 15, 2026 · 1h 27m

Summary

Host Shankar Vedantam explores the "pro-sociality paradox" with psychologist Amit Kumar, revealing why we often withhold kindness due to fears of awkwardness. Through stories of a cyclist saved by strangers and experiments on gratitude, the episode shows that recipients value warmth far more than givers anticipate. By overcoming these mental barriers, we can unlock profound benefits for both ourselves and others.

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