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Ep. 599: Treat Your Home Like a Hotel, Plus a Common Relationship Blindspot

Aug 12, 2026 · 32m

Summary

Gretchen Rubin and her sister Elizabeth Kraft discuss treating your home like a hotel to enhance comfort and order by fixing minor issues and adding small luxuries. They also explore the "lightning bolt" strategy for sudden habit changes and share social hacks, such as giving formal introductions to ease interactions. The episode highlights a common conflict source: mistaking personal preferences for objective truths, urging listeners to recognize differences in areas like work styles or vacation plans.

Topics discussed

Intro: Lightning bolt changes and listener stories Treat your home like a hotel for inner calm Sponsors: HERS, Quo, and Quince Social muscle: The power of formal introductions Happiness stumbling block: Preferences vs. being right Sponsors: Land Rover Defender and Zenni Demerits and Gold Stars: Tech anxiety and solo flights Outro: Book recommendation and Uber Eats ad
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