Gretchen Rubin reinterprets Aesop’s fable of the ass and the lapdog, arguing that its traditional moral about staying in one’s lane is less relevant than the lesson that those who are hardest to love often need it the most. She connects this insight to proverbs from teachers, noting that individuals who crave affection may express it in awkward or unlovable ways. By contrasting the pampered dog with the neglected ass, Rubin highlights the challenge of extending kindness to those who are less charming or easy to appreciate.