Handsome Handsome

Pretty Little Episode #108

Sep 11, 2026 · 24m

Summary

Tig Notaro and Mae Martin discuss the balance between high-intensity work and the peace found in simple, nature-filled routines. They share stories of their kids cooking, the joy of "squirreling around," and their differing approaches to therapy. The episode also features a listener question about pretending to like a partner's interests, leading to a funny anecdote about a bad play.

Topics discussed

Intro and Allstate ad Host introductions and T-shirt story Desire for a normal, calm life Weekend in the woods and sleeping better Summer off and kids cooking dinner Kids' creative cooking and desserts Balancing high-intensity work and peace The squirrel metaphor for purpose Joy in work vs. outsourcing life Squirreling around in Colorado Writer's brain and not pitching ideas Interest in writing a bad script Allstate ad break Writing experience and memoir Therapy focus on current issues Deeper therapy sessions planned Approaches to therapy and trauma Transition to listener question Pretending interest in dating Supporting partner's art and music Movie about disliking partner's book Fan of partner's work Listener answer: Rick and Morty Pac-Man at Lake Arrowhead Not pretending to like things Dating someone in England and her show Closing the question segment Call to action for questions Outro and credits Final Allstate ad
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