Kate Berlant
Oct 20, 2026 · 1h 9m
Summary
Amy Poehler welcomes comedian Kate Berlant to discuss her new HBO special, Parmesan, and their deep friendship. They explore topics like phone addiction, the dynamics of funny women, and gender performance, with a pre-interview segment featuring John Early. Berlant shares personal stories about growing up as an only child in an artistic household and her early career experiences.
Topics discussed
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Introduction of Guest Kate Berlant
Connecting with John Early
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Discussing Female Portrayals and Aggression
How Kate and John Met and Became Friends
Living Together in a Tiny Apartment
The Art of Passive Aggression
Authority, Inferiority, and Comedy
Comedic Volley: Agassi, Sampras, Federer, Nadal
Learning from Avant-Garde Artists
John's Questions: Paris and Being Funny
John's Questions: Kids, Sexuality, and Shoes
Kate's Email and Chimney Sweep Zones
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In Frame: Jennifer Lawrence's Lipsticks
Watching the Special and Doing Dishes
Avant-Garde Artists Who Are Warm
Upright Citizens Brigade Manifesto
Kate's Haircut and Extreme Length
Kate's New Special Introduction
Why the Special is Called Parmesan
Social Media and Existential Dilemmas
Struggles with Sobriety and Cleanse
Relapse and Late Nights
Novel Writing and No Scrolling
Intimacy with Self and Medicinal Effects
Funny Women as a Threat
Single Sex School and First Stand-Up
Guys Don't Like Funny Girls
Embarrassment and Masculine Roles
Divine Rupture and Class Clowns
Stealing World Maps from School
Kleptomania and Stealing Makeup
Shorthand for Gay and Bisexual Experiences
Not Locking into Categories
Failed Gay Woman and Living in Both Worlds
Distance in Queer Relationships
Performance of Femininity and Masculinity
Expensive Self-Discovery and Airplane Performances
Overcompensating with Luggage
Class Clowns in Bed
Being Seen for the First Time
Laughing and Dancing as Anxiety Expulsion
Anesthesia and Waking Up
Medical Anxiety and Unnecessary Angiogram
Arteries in the Neck and Doctor Calls
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Santa Monica and Nepo Babies
Stay-at-Home Mom and Only Child
Sharing Mommy and Siblings
Precocious Kid and Mimicry
Voice Actor on Texas Call-In Radio
Pretending to Cry on Radio
Fired from Radio and Early Career
John Early and Whirlwind Friendship
Meeting on Set and Facebook
Not a Roast Fan and Vicious Accusations
Conflict Style and Adrenaline
Chimney Sweep Incident
Gaslighting and Payment Dispute
Losing Work and Wanting a Husband
John's Questions: Paris and Funny
John's Questions: Gay or What
John's Voicemails and HBO Press
Small House and Furniture Moving
Pug Podcast and Product Deep Dives
The Search is the Point
Platonic Best Thing and House Shoes
140 Degrees and Air Conditioning
Sleeping Naked and Eight Sleep
Psychic Abilities and Reading People
Ghosts and Rachel Dratch
Upsetting Ghost Experiences
Lifting Curses for Free
LA vs NY and Longing for Strangers
Alien Brightness and Hollywood Dreams
Non-Performers Performing at Weddings
Bridesmaid Speeches and Vows
Breaking Out of the List
Party Planner and Broken Glass
Micromancy and Effortless Host Lie
Takeaways and Caperland
Closing Thanks and Love
Advice on Sincerity and Jokes
Credits and Production Team
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