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Training a Risk Taker

Sep 29, 2026 · 12m

Summary

Host John Fuller and Dr. Danni Huerta discuss how parents can encourage children to take risks responsibly. Guest Caroline Shankel shares her journey overcoming comparison, perfectionism, and anxiety, emphasizing the importance of empathy and embracing failure. The episode offers practical advice for helping teens navigate decision-making paralysis, modeling healthy responses to mistakes, and trusting God’s sovereignty in life’s outcomes.

Topics discussed

Host intro: Risk aversion and background Episode overview and guest introductions The impact of comparison on self-worth College experiences and the thief of joy Bullying, empathy, and understanding root causes Perfectionism and anxiety in Christian life Overcoming fear of failure: The Man in the Arena Learning from mistakes and shanked shots Decision making and trusting God's sovereignty Helping children who are paralyzed by choices The freeze response and learning from ADHD Modeling imperfect decisions for kids Daily decision volume and seeking wisdom Navigating college and career choices Book promotion and podcast recommendations
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