BITESIZE | A Monk’s Guide to Finding Happiness (Even When Things Don’t Go Your Way) | Haemin Sunim #649
Apr 16, 2026 · 22m
Summary
Dr. Rangan Chatterjee speaks with Zen Buddhist monk Heimin Sunim about the "donno mind," or the power of not knowing. They discuss how embracing uncertainty and impermanence can reduce stress and deepen relationships by fostering curiosity. Sunim advises finding "small but certain happiness" in daily moments rather than chasing monumental goals. This mindset shift allows for greater peace and appreciation of the present.
Topics discussed
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Intro: Interview with Buddhist monk Heimin Sunim
The 'Donno Mind': Embracing uncertainty
Unexpected opportunities in life's detours
Applying openness to wedding planning stress
Curiosity as the foundation of love
The 'Starting with Zero' relationship exercise
Recognizing impermanence to let go of annoyance
True nature is peace, not excitement
Finding small but certain happiness
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