We should party more
Sep 20, 2026 · 30m
Summary
Host Jonquellyn Hill explores the art of partying, featuring Victor Jeffries’ blindfolded stranger-meeting soirees and Imogen Willich’s history of nightlife as a driver of cultural innovation. Halston shares practical hosting tips, from curated playlists to mismatched glassware, while Kat Velos offers advice on being a considerate guest and sparking meaningful conversations. The episode addresses the modern loneliness epidemic, emphasizing how intentional social gatherings can foster connection and collective euphoria in an increasingly isolated world.
Topics discussed
Victor Jeffries' blindfolded party experiment
The loneliness epidemic and decline of social gatherings
History of parties: religion and collective effervescence
Nightlife's role in cultural innovation and art movements
Historical home parties: Jazz, rent parties, and college life
Essential elements of a great party atmosphere
Holston Bruce: The role of the host and welcoming guests
Practical party tips: Scent, music, and glassware
Conversation starters: The Proust Questionnaire
Overcoming hosting anxiety and creating experiences
Kat Velos: The responsibilities of a good guest
How to start conversations with strangers at parties
Turning party connections into real friendships
Solitude vs. loneliness and inclusive party design
How to gracefully end the night as host or guest
Listener request: Personal style and show credits
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