Disaffected Disaffected

How to Catch a Narcissist-livestream 9.30.26

Oct 2, 2026 · 2h 13m

Summary

Host Josh Slocum discusses a complex workplace dynamic with guests TC Pearson and therapist Jake Freeman, focusing on how Pearson unwittingly became entangled with a colleague displaying narcissistic and borderline personality traits. The episode analyzes the progression from initial idealization to intense manipulation, highlighting specific examples of projection, threats, and erratic communication. Freeman provides clinical context on trauma bonding and the difficulty of recognizing these patterns in real-time, while Pearson shares his experience overcoming childhood conditioning to iden…

Topics discussed

Intro, tech setup, and cat update Guest introductions and context Discussion on content creation and personality traits TC's background and initial interaction with Jane Recognizing Cluster B traits and exhaustion Analysis of Jane's threats and manipulation tactics Examining text exchanges and projection Explaining personality organization and neurosis Evidence of stalking and legal actions Law enforcement, restraining orders, and costs Warning signs and the idealization-devaluation cycle Practical advice for handling toxic relationships Social media threats and the need for pushback Political dynamics, power, and Christian theology Closing remarks and resources
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