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Paul Farmer, charity leader

Aug 8, 2026 · 50m

Summary

Charity leader Paul Farmer joins Lauren Laverne to discuss his career campaigning for mental health at Mind and his current role at Age UK tackling ageism. He reflects on his upbringing with a monk father, his time as a Samaritan volunteer, and the profound grief of losing his wife Claire to cancer. Farmer selects eight tracks, including works by Aretha Franklin and Nick Cave, that reflect his journey of connection, faith, and resilience.

Topics discussed

Introduction and guest overview Belief-making and tackling loneliness in later life First track: 'Free' and family history Father's life as a monk and historian Mother's rebellious faith and school days Walking sports and second track: 'Don't Leave Me This Way' Oxford years, meeting wife Claire, and travelling Third track: 'The Sound of Silence' and isolation Working at the Samaritans and learning to listen Campaigning at Rethink and Mind against stigma Asda costume controversy and government engagement Fifth track: 'Into My Arms' by Nick Cave Claire's cancer diagnosis, illness, and grief Sixth track: 'The Drunk Surfer' and music club Moving to Age UK and healthspan statistics Books, luxury item, and final track: 'Sunshine on Leith' Outro and archive recommendations
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