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Passive Aggressive vs. ‘Massive Aggressive’ With Novelist Elizabeth Strout

Aug 18, 2026 · 47m

Summary

Host Anna Sale interviews Pulitzer Prize-winning author Elizabeth Strout about her latest novel, *The Things We Never Say*, and her exploration of midlife, loneliness, and aging. Strout discusses her unconventional path to writing, including a stint in stand-up comedy that helped her find her authentic voice, and reflects on her upbringing in Maine. The conversation covers themes of mortality, the influence of Carl Jung, and the quiet resilience of her characters.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Elizabeth Strout and her new novels Sponsors: TD Bank and Gab Aging, turning points, and the significance of age 57 Dreams, Carl Jung, and the pain of midlife divorce Early career fears and living in a fourth-floor walk-up Law school, gerontology, and observing loneliness in department stores Sponsors: Blueland, Bill, and Quince Taking a stand-up comedy class to find her voice Childhood in New England: isolation and observing people Religion, ministers, and the desire to understand others Sponsor: Ollie Kids Sleep Moving to New York: culture shock and public conflict Meeting her husband through her writing Returning to Maine and finding beauty in the landscape Perspectives on death, acceptance, and cleaning up Credits and show support information
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