What Your Kids Need More Than a Perfect Dad
Oct 5, 2026 · 33m
Summary
Adam Griffin discusses spiritual leadership in the home, defining it as humble service rather than control. He shares stories of delighting his family, such as a last-minute concert trip, to illustrate God’s fatherly heart. Griffin also addresses common barriers for men, including busyness and fear of inadequacy, while emphasizing that spiritual growth often happens in small, incremental steps.
Topics discussed
Introduction: Adam Griffin's background and family
Chat about dogs: Golden Doodles and Bernadoodles
Anniversary math and Dallas vs Fort Worth culture
Barbecue, cowgirl hats, and Ella Langley
Story: Taking daughter to a last-minute concert
Planned surprises vs spontaneous moments (Lion King)
Theology: God delighting in His children
Prayer life and a canyon encounter with a Packers fan
Trusting God's sovereignty and timing in prayer
Defining good fatherhood: ordinary vs extravagant love
Defining spiritual leadership: service and initiation
Why men struggle to lead: busyness and exhaustion
Fear, inadequacy, and lack of enthusiasm in leadership
Measuring spiritual growth: the 'beard second' metaphor
Navigating the teenage years and incremental change
Handling hypocrisy and modeling repentance
Grace in failure: Peter's story in Luke and John
Jesus and Peter: inside jokes and the call to follow
Promoting 'Our Family Devotional' and pre-ordering
Closing remarks and gratitude
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