Paul Aragones: How to Engineer a Great Marriage
Mar 2, 2026 ยท 1h 49m
Topics discussed
Introduction: AI, coding, and the guest's background
Marriage as an operating system: The core analogy
Building the spec sheet: Requirements vs. flexibility
Dating strategy: Expiry dates and defining the relationship
Social shifts: Changing friend groups and identity
The importance of mentors and community support
Servant leadership: Biblical views on marriage roles
Communication: Reading the room and avoiding contempt
Maintenance: Stand-ups, tech debt, and saving marriages
Conclusion: Prioritizing marriage over career and business
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