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Paul Aragones: How to Engineer a Great Marriage

Mar 2, 2026 ยท 1h 49m

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Introduction: AI, coding, and the guest's background Marriage as an operating system: The core analogy Building the spec sheet: Requirements vs. flexibility Dating strategy: Expiry dates and defining the relationship Social shifts: Changing friend groups and identity The importance of mentors and community support Servant leadership: Biblical views on marriage roles Communication: Reading the room and avoiding contempt Maintenance: Stand-ups, tech debt, and saving marriages Conclusion: Prioritizing marriage over career and business
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