How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health — Come Curious

Florence explores the profound identity shift of motherhood, challenging "bounce back" culture and societal expectations around postpartum bodies. She discusses the realities of breastfeeding, postpartum anxiety, and the physical and emotional changes that reshape a woman's life. The episode features listener stories on navigating lost identity and the pressure to perform perfection. Florence advocates for grace, community support, and celebrating the new self that emerges after birth.

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Introduction and host background Overview of the episode's focus on identity shift Recording logistics and baby care Fuck off: Corporate parental leave shrinking Personal experience with freelance finances and leave Comparing maternity leave in UK vs US Fuck yeah: NHS SMABS app for mental health Discussion on postpartum depression awareness Anecdote: Intrusive thoughts and anxiety while driving Anecdote: Anxiety at the grocery store Anecdote: Fear of suspicious behavior in public Encouragement to seek mental health support The importance of a 'village' for support Brain changes and the 'baby brain' phenomenon Reflections on past judgment of mothers The physical sacrifice of birth Breastfeeding expectations vs reality Factors affecting breastfeeding success Personal struggle with pumping and formula Shame and stigma around public breastfeeding Individual differences in feeding choices Social discomfort with breastfeeding Impact of hormonal shifts and stress Statistics on seeking help for mental health Readiness for sex postpartum Lack of time and energy for intimacy Managing pain and listening to your body Partner communication and libido changes Instagram's myth of the postpartum body Pressure to exercise and regain shape Weirdness of postpartum body changes Medical advice on weight loss windows Feeling inadequate despite medical clearance Emotional impact of societal standards Judgment and self-esteem issues Reframing 'bounce back' culture Need for grace in body image Celebrating postpartum bodies Role confusion and identity loss Societal expectations of motherhood The 'do it all' millennial pressure Unexpected desire to be a stay-at-home mum Fitting into the new role of mother Promotion of Patreon and community Listener stories on identity change Listener story: Living in gratitude Listener story: Neurodivergence unmasked Listener story: Increased empathy and emotion Listener story: Loss of self and needs Duration of postpartum recovery Navigating multiple new roles Balancing self-care and parenting Importance of known support networks Listener story: Priorities shifting Jealousy of others' support systems Listener story: Identity reforming slowly The 'Velcro baby' experience Becoming 'invisible' in social/work life Listener story: Positive identity shift Introduction to MatriSense Collective Sharing diverse motherhood stories Rebuilding identity post-birth Giving back to the community Closing remarks and Patreon reminder Final encouragement to mothers Sign-off

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How Motherhood Changed Us - Postpartum Life, Body Changes, Sex After Birth & Maternal Mental Health

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