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How Do I Help My Boss Without Doing Their Job For Them?

Apr 27, 2026

Summary

Executive coach Muriel Wilkins helps Kate navigate a strained relationship with her new manager, stemming from misaligned expectations about their roles. Kate feels stifled by her boss’s micromanagement, but Muriel guides her to reframe the dynamic by exploring what "help" truly means to her manager. The session focuses on clarifying these expectations and evaluating whether Kate’s personal motivations align with the required working style, empowering her to make an informed choice about her future in the role.

Topics discussed

Everand Sponsorship and Intro Kate's Background and New Role Strained Relationship with Manager Mismatched Expectations and Role Definition Cozy Earth and Alma Sponsorships Analyzing the Boss's Perspective Defining What Is 'Helpful' to the Boss Observing Patterns and Communication Styles Proposing a Working Agreement NetSuite Sponsorship Clarifying the 'Why' Behind the Work Action Plan and Next Steps Key Takeaways and Outro
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