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How Do I Find Fulfillment In My Leadership Role?

May 25, 2026

Summary

Executive Coach Muriel Wilkins guides Susan, a public service leader who recently moved to the private sector, through her feelings of misalignment and buyer’s remorse. Susan struggles with the new role’s commercial focus, which clashes with her purpose-driven values, and feels stifled by a micromanaging boss. Wilkins helps her reframe her experience by accepting the current reality without losing her core purpose, focusing on professional growth and supporting colleagues while preparing for a future pivot back to mission-aligned work.

Topics discussed

Sponsors: Everand and FlexCar Introduction to Susan's coaching session Susan's background and new role frustrations Defining the desired outcome and professional goals Misalignment between Susan's values and company culture Exploring reasons for staying and lack of growth The 'fill my cup' metaphor and waiting for conditions Analogy of weather and creating meaning regardless of conditions Sponsors: Alma, Cozy Earth, and NetSuite Coaching recap: Navigating career moves that don't go as planned Reframing the 'salesy' nature of the current role Aligning mindset, actions, and purpose Acceptance vs. Complacency and advocating within constraints Sponsor: Stamps.com Creating meaning: The box of crayons analogy Action plan: Adding a 'meaning' column to tasks Conclusion and final sponsor: Scribe
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