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Ask Muriel Anything with Special Guest Dave Stachowiak

Apr 13, 2026

Summary

Muriel Wilkins and Dave Stachowiak address listener questions on career stagnation, job transitions, and volatile priorities. They advise high performers to diversify advocacy beyond their manager, identify non-negotiables by analyzing past irritations, and anchor teams through constant change by emphasizing a "nobler motive." The episode highlights consistency over intensity in behavior change and the importance of managing up to clarify strategic direction.

Topics discussed

Sponsor message: Everand audiobook service Introduction of guest Dave Stachowiak and his coaching philosophy Behavior change through small steps and structure Addressing fears of being held back by your manager Strategies for having difficult conversations with your boss Sponsor messages: Alma therapy and Cozy Earth Determining non-negotiables for major career decisions Sponsor messages: Alma therapy and NetSuite AI Leading effectively through constant change and shifting priorities Conclusion, resources, and final thoughts
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