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Ask Muriel Anything: Listening to Your Team, Leading With Uncertainty, Balancing Empathy and Accountability

Sep 28, 2026 · 41m

Summary

Muriel Wilkins and Matt Abrahams discuss why effective communication remains difficult for leaders, emphasizing that poor communication often signals gaps in critical thinking. They address listener questions on balancing empathy with accountability, building confidence amid uncertainty, and navigating matrix organizations without formal authority. Abrahams advises leaders to demonstrate listening through paraphrasing, define clear expectations, and leverage relationship-building to influence peers. The episode highlights the importance of authentic engagement over AI-generated content and …

Topics discussed

Sponsor: Superhuman Go and BKF Introduction of guest Matt Abrahams Why communication is challenging for leaders The risks of relying on AI for communication Addressing feedback on not listening to the team Practical strategies for active listening Sponsors: Shopify, SelectQuote, and Monarch Speaking confidently with uncertainty and AI Balancing empathy and accountability as a manager Sponsors: NetSuite and BKF Cruise Leading effectively without direct authority Closing remarks and community resources Sponsor: Superhuman Go
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