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795: The Question That Frees an Hour a Day, with Neal Schore

Aug 10, 2026 · 37m

Summary

Host Dave Stachowiak interviews Neil Shore, author of *The 25th Hour*, on reclaiming time through self-management rather than tactical fixes. Shore explains how leaders waste hours on "swirling"—internal rumination—and offers the question "What's the intent?" to reframe interactions. By pausing to assess intent, leaders shift from ordinary, robotic responses to exceptional engagement, saving time and reducing stress.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Time management and self-management The 25th Hour: Reclaiming time from distractions Understanding the 'Swirl': Mental loops and overthinking Case Study: Kara's journey from swirling to efficiency The Key Question: 'What's the intent?' Solving for intent: Examples from board members and staff Self-awareness and managing fatigue in leadership Ordinary vs. Exceptional thinking patterns The Trifecta: Pause, Intent, and Asking Questions Avoiding self-criticism and embracing levity Recommended episodes and closing remarks
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