Nicholas Epley: Talking to strangers
Aug 4, 2026 · 37m
Summary
Alan Alda interviews University of Chicago professor Nicholas Epley about his book *A Little More Social*, which argues that talking to strangers boosts happiness. Epley explains how we underestimate others' warmth and shares personal stories, including adopting a child with Down syndrome after a loss. He offers practical tips for initiating meaningful connections in everyday moments.
Topics discussed
Introduction: The power of talking to strangers
The train experiment: A life-changing conversation
Why we underestimate the benefits of social connection
Practical tips for initiating deeper conversations
The unique value of voice and tone in communication
Story of Claire: Connecting with a fugitive on the subway
Personal loss and the decision to adopt a child with Down syndrome
The 10-5 rule: Smiling to create daily connections
Rapid fire: Life lessons, confidence, and influential books
Conclusion and preview of next episode on anti-vax sentiment
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