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Janelle Monáe: We Should Thank Our Exes (FBF)

Jul 31, 2026 · 1h 3m

Summary

Alex Cooper sits down with Janelle Monáe to discuss her new album, *The Age of Pleasure*, which she describes as a soundtrack to a lifestyle born from healing trauma. Monáe opens up about overcoming abandonment issues stemming from her father’s addiction and how therapy helped her reframe past relationships. The conversation also covers her views on privacy, the importance of communication in polyamorous dynamics, and challenging societal norms around love and identity.

Topics discussed

Sponsors: Sour Patch Kids, Stouffer's, T-Mobile Guest intro and vacation stories (Jamaica) Childhood in Kansas and friend group dynamics New album 'Age of Pleasure' and creative process Overcoming rejection and self-worth in art Healing from father's addiction and abandonment Relationships, breakups, and the value of therapy Sponsors: Haagen-Dazs and Stouffer's Learning from past partners and personal growth Advice for listeners on mental health and therapy Rebuilding relationship with father and family support Sponsors: Mushroom Council and Haagen-Dazs Privacy in relationships and social media pressure Communication styles and polyamorous relationships Navigating societal judgment and authenticity Coming out, sexuality, and finding community Sponsors: Mushroom Council and BetterHelp The concept of 'coming in' and handling negativity Sexual pleasure, shame, and body reclamation Tour details, album tracklist, and fan gifts Sponsors: Ashley Lux, Kotex, and T-Mobile
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