Second Date Update Classics: Dutch Isn't Just A Language + Dry Lips & Hands On Hips
Oct 24, 2026 · 36m
Summary
In this episode, Jake and Kim discuss their first date, where Kim discovered Jake’s Venmo history and interpreted it as him being a sugar daddy, leading her to decline a second date. Meanwhile, Anthony, who overcorrected his mannerisms after receiving feedback from a friend, used a straw for wine and gave a "no-armed hug," causing Amanda to suspect he used ChatGPT for his texts. The hosts call both women to resolve the misunderstandings, ultimately securing second dates for both men.
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Intro: Bonding over shared hatred
Jake's fear of calling his brother's name
The date story: Bad music at the party
The wine bar date and awkward game show story
The Venmo incident and going Dutch
Post-date interactions and the cheek kiss
Planning the second date and song pick
Kim's perspective: Distant behavior
Hosts discuss the cheek kiss meaning
Calling Kim: The 'Reach for the Sky' joke
Kim joins the show and initial reactions
Kim confirms the Venmo and Dutch bill
The Venmo emoji controversy
Accusations of being a sugar daddy
Jake explains the 'book club' transactions
Paying for pre-dinner snacks and makeup
Refunds and the 'lady emoji' compromise
Negotiating the final payment amount
Offering a free second date
Jake pays the hosts and segment wrap-up
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Management rejects the payment refund
Listener texts about free money
Intro: Self-improvement and inheritance joke
Dating advice and rock bottom
Anthony's dating struggles and friend feedback
Practice date and positive review
Feedback on hand gestures and lip licking
The wine bar date and body consciousness
Drinking with a straw and overcorrection
The no-armed hug incident
Texting with phone at side
Preparation for calling Amanda
Recap of the 'no-armed hug' invention
The straw and lip licking workaround
Calling Amanda on air
Amanda's initial reaction to the call
Theories on the straw usage
Suspicion of ChatGPT-written texts
Anthony joins the call
Anthony claims to be a ChatGPT inventor
Hosts question Anthony's wealth
Amanda's skepticism about the claim
Amanda agrees to a second date
AI mode and final confirmation
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Discussion on billionaire listeners
Verifying Anthony's AI claims
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Vaccination and immune system health
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