Second Date Update Classic: How Dare You Heart Me
Aug 24, 2026 · 16m
Summary
Brooke and Jeffrey help listener Aiden understand why his date, Kim, stopped responding after a fun night that included him jokingly punching himself. They call Kim, who reveals she felt undervalued because Aiden switched from writing long, flattering texts to simply reacting with heart emojis to her photos. After Aiden apologizes and promises to provide more verbal validation, Kim agrees to a second date paid for by the show.
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Sponsor reads: ChatGPT, Discover, UnitedHealthcare, Grainger, and Epclusa
Intro: Welcome to Second Date Update and listener comments
Aiden's story: Meeting Kim online and the 'do it 100%' bio
The date: Drinks, the self-punch joke, and going back to his place
The conflict: Kim's cold texts and the 'whatever' response
Hosts analyze the situation and decide to call Kim
Calling Kim: She explains the vibe shift and lack of validation
Aiden joins the call: Misunderstanding about emoji vs. paragraphs
Resolution: Aiden apologizes and they agree to a second date
Sponsor read: Vinted secondhand fashion app
Outro: Hosts discuss the outcome and promote the segment
Final ads: Epclusa, Kesimpta, Pennzoil, M&M's, and PNC Bank
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