Macht in Beziehungen: Nähe, Einfluss und Verantwortung
Oct 5, 2026 · 1h 6m
Summary
In this episode of "Betreutes Fühlen," hosts Arze Schröder and Leon Windscheid explore the concept of power dynamics in romantic relationships, drawing on a recent review from the Annual Reviews of Psychology. They discuss how power is not necessarily a zero-sum game but can foster connection when managed through open communication, while also addressing the often invisible "third shift" of emotional labor. The conversation contrasts healthy, equitable partnerships with toxic imbalances and abuse, highlighting the importance of recognizing and addressing power imbalances to maintain a healt…
Topics discussed
Intro: Power dynamics and relationship needs
Greeting, location in Cologne, and recent events
Discussion on autism, media representation, and perception
Reflections on aging, experience, and knowledge
Introduction to the topic of power in relationships
Sponsor break: Kongster Internet
Personal relationship dynamics and equality
Observations on power imbalances in TV relationships
Stereotypes of gender roles and power games
Scientific perspective: Power as connection, not zero-sum
Practical examples of power in daily decisions
Transition to abuse and negative power dynamics
Sponsor break: Gerolsteiner Mineral Water
The invisible 'third shift' of care and emotional labor
Extreme cases: Domestic violence and control
Research on low power, helplessness, and aggression
Manipulation tactics: Guilt, control, and communication
Power imbalances due to health and vulnerability
Sponsor break: Kongster Internet
Responsibilities of those with more power
Key takeaways: Freedom, surrender, and self-worth
Outro: 7-year anniversary and future plans
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