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How to STOP Thinking About Work...Especially on Your Days Off!

May 14, 2026 · 16m

Summary

The host addresses entrepreneurs struggling to stop thinking about work by reframing the goal toward finding emotional safety and control. He explains the HPA axis stress response, noting that rumination offers a false sense of control when autonomy is lost after hours. Practical solutions include pattern interrupts like playing guitar or sitting in quiet silence to transition from work to home. This mindfulness practice helps regulate the nervous system, fostering presence and improving relationships by leaving work stress behind.

Topics discussed

Intro: The struggle of constant work thoughts Reframing the question: Finding safety and presence Neurobiology: The HPA axis and stress response Why we ruminate: Control and dopamine at home Practical exercise: Pattern interrupts and transitions The power of silence and embracing multiple identities Impact on relationships and the need for presence Conclusion: Simplicity, self-compassion, and closing
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