Behind the Bastards Behind the Bastards

Part Two: The Orgasm Cult

May 26, 2026 · 1h 14m

Summary

Hosts Julia and Luke welcome back Jamie Loftus to discuss the Welcome Consensus, an 1990s Bay Area orgasm cult led by abusive founder RJ Testerman. The episode details how member Nicole Daedone exploited the group’s dynamics to recruit wealthy targets like Rob Kall. After leaving, Nicole founded the Institute of Monastic Understanding, rebranding sexual exploitation as "orgasmic meditation" to prey on Silicon Valley tech workers.

Topics discussed

Intro and awkward banter about kink camps Ad reads and podcast promotions The Welcome Consensus and Morehouse origins Cult dynamics, radical honesty, and ranch life Sexual experimentation and orgasm philosophy Abuse, NXIVM comparisons, and legal troubles Ad reads and sponsor segments Nicole recruits Rob and Carol Candle Fill Up America charity and Bay Area expansion Recruiting musician Don Marquis Don's disillusionment and Nicole's toxic philosophy Ray Vetterling's advice on building a cult Ad reads and sponsor segments Public demos, Don's departure, and Erwan's rise Launching OneTaste and the 'One Taste' philosophy Marketing to lonely men and targeting depression The OM procedure and structured sex work Media coverage and feminist co-opting Nicole's role, final ads, and outro
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