Part Two: The Orgasm Cult
May 26, 2026 · 1h 14m
Summary
Hosts Julia and Luke welcome back Jamie Loftus to discuss the Welcome Consensus, an 1990s Bay Area orgasm cult led by abusive founder RJ Testerman. The episode details how member Nicole Daedone exploited the group’s dynamics to recruit wealthy targets like Rob Kall. After leaving, Nicole founded the Institute of Monastic Understanding, rebranding sexual exploitation as "orgasmic meditation" to prey on Silicon Valley tech workers.
Topics discussed
Intro and awkward banter about kink camps
Ad reads and podcast promotions
The Welcome Consensus and Morehouse origins
Cult dynamics, radical honesty, and ranch life
Sexual experimentation and orgasm philosophy
Abuse, NXIVM comparisons, and legal troubles
Ad reads and sponsor segments
Nicole recruits Rob and Carol Candle
Fill Up America charity and Bay Area expansion
Recruiting musician Don Marquis
Don's disillusionment and Nicole's toxic philosophy
Ray Vetterling's advice on building a cult
Ad reads and sponsor segments
Public demos, Don's departure, and Erwan's rise
Launching OneTaste and the 'One Taste' philosophy
Marketing to lonely men and targeting depression
The OM procedure and structured sex work
Media coverage and feminist co-opting
Nicole's role, final ads, and outro
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