Begin Again with Davina McCall Begin Again with Davina McCall

Begin Again Moments: How To Communicate When Love Gets Hard

Sep 27, 2026 · 15m

Summary

Davina McCall and guest Ben Branson discuss managing relationship triggers and the importance of tolerance in couples. They explore how to de-escalate conflicts by reframing arguments as a team effort against the issue, rather than partner versus partner. The conversation highlights the value of seeking feedback, scheduling meaningful conversations for daytime, and utilizing various forms of therapy, including listening to podcasts together, to keep the emotional "pilot light" of love alive.

Topics discussed

Sponsor reads and transition to relationship triggers Identifying daily triggers like the dishwasher Managing triggers and the process conversation Reconnecting and avoiding late-night arguments Sponsor reads and the pilot light metaphor Therapy options and the power of shared learning Individual work and seeking partner feedback Reframing arguments and the crap sandwich technique Sponsor reads for Blinds.com and Starbucks Uber Eats game day deals promotion
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