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Mariska Hargitay Knows Loss And Longing

May 28, 2026 · 36m

Summary

Anderson Cooper speaks with Mariska Hargitay about her documentary "My Mom Jane," exploring her grief over losing her mother, Jane Mansfield, at age three. Hargitay discusses discovering her biological father, Nelson Sardelli, and reconciling with her adoptive father, Mickey Hargitay. They also cover somatic trauma work, the healing power of empathy, and how sharing personal stories alleviates the burden of loss.

Topics discussed

Host intro: Personal grief and Mariska's documentary Audio glitch: Repeated phrase 'Mariska Hargitay, was' Somatic therapy and releasing trauma from the body Ad break: CNN Weather App promotion Exploring family storage unit and recovering mom's piano Integrating identity: Realizing similarities with her mother Confronting father about biological truth and his denial Mickey Hargitay's death and final words of love Discovering mother's letter and meeting biological father Nelson Finding empathy for parents and viewing past as a gift Healing through tolerating pain and bearing witness Outro: Documentary info, upcoming episode, and Moth ad
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