Mariska Hargitay Knows Loss And Longing
May 28, 2026 · 36m
Summary
Anderson Cooper speaks with Mariska Hargitay about her documentary "My Mom Jane," exploring her grief over losing her mother, Jane Mansfield, at age three. Hargitay discusses discovering her biological father, Nelson Sardelli, and reconciling with her adoptive father, Mickey Hargitay. They also cover somatic trauma work, the healing power of empathy, and how sharing personal stories alleviates the burden of loss.
Topics discussed
Host intro: Personal grief and Mariska's documentary
Audio glitch: Repeated phrase 'Mariska Hargitay, was'
Somatic therapy and releasing trauma from the body
Ad break: CNN Weather App promotion
Exploring family storage unit and recovering mom's piano
Integrating identity: Realizing similarities with her mother
Confronting father about biological truth and his denial
Mickey Hargitay's death and final words of love
Discovering mother's letter and meeting biological father Nelson
Finding empathy for parents and viewing past as a gift
Healing through tolerating pain and bearing witness
Outro: Documentary info, upcoming episode, and Moth ad
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